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    About homosexuality, seriously.

     
    其实一早就想谈这个话题了。从写毕业论文之前开始,直到论文答辩被某彪悍老师问到对同性恋看法的问题,再到前两天做到一份稿子说十年前(precisely)一名13岁的英国小男孩因为发现他妈妈是 lesbian 于是杀了她(或是未遂,不记得了)。
    总之,现在看来,这是个很普遍的 topic 了。
    从我个人的观点来看,或许这是个应该跳出道德框架来对待的问题。无论是生理上的,还是情感上的。
    生理上的倒错我们无法控制;情感上的爱,我想,很难用性别去简单的界定吧。
    只是人们似乎仍然是不够宽容的。
    我决不是要在这里为 homo 摇旗呐喊,只是,无论拿出那种理由来反驳 homosexuality,都似乎很薄弱。圣经说 religion is about love and acceptance. 当然,这可能是我断章取义了,至少,基督徒们大多是严厉斥责同性恋行为的。但是他们的 script 里的确有这么一句话;法律,在有的国家甚至已经承认同性恋婚姻,还有一些国家是允许这些 partners 像登记结婚一样登记,在一起,以法定的身份,可以共同领养小孩或者接受捐赠自己生孩子;道德,这不关道德的事,只要不妨碍到无关人员的well being,不扰乱到 straight 的正常生活。
    但是似乎这个社会仍然无法接受这样的现象,或许,只是因为它和人们的传统价值观有着严重的冲撞?
    不过,弱弱的说一句,我很怀疑“价值观”这三个字。
    Welcome your comments, any perspective!Warmly Welcome!
     

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    雯菲 徐wrote:
    嗯,清琪的这个观点有意思。
    Oct. 9
    清琪wrote:
    如果现在的社会遵循的是同性恋,而视异性恋为异类呢!本身并无对错之分,只是相对于整个社会环境而言。
    Oct. 9
    雯菲 徐wrote:
    嗯,Nadia 讲的对,It's self-respect and the respect of your family.
    Maybe a little bit more, about love.
    这不应该沦落到变成政治权利的问题,只有一个不够宽容的社会才会允许它成为一个“问题”。这应该只是个“现象”罢了。一个人爱上另一个人,尽此而已。
    Oct. 4
    雯皓 颜wrote:
    鄙视HOMO...
    Oct. 4
    惠 大石wrote:
    《金枝欲孽》是同性恋电影?or有一个电影的中文译名用了这个?
    ps. 俺从来没觉得这是啥政治权力问题。
    Oct. 2
    xiaojinwrote:
    同性恋话题多了去了,大得没边。不过一个人总要先搞搞清楚自己是什么,然后轰轰烈烈地去追求。  保守社会不该用大帽子盖他们,中国的同性恋者也大可不必用自己都未必懂的西方所谓“政治正确”来标新立异赶时髦,把自己竖成活靶子。
    这个问题政治化的一塌糊涂,不知道哪一天能还原到人本的轨道上:归根到底,是一个人爱另一个人的问题呢?还是政治权利的问题?
     
    PS:看过同性恋电影一部,《金枝欲孽》?,很不错的。
     
    Sept. 30
    Nadia Zhangwrote:
    本來感情的事情就是沒有所謂的價值觀可以去判斷對或錯
    不管是同性戀也好,異性戀也好..只要不會去傷害到第3者..只要兩個人在一起真的是開心的..我覺得都很ok...
    但..對家人而言..當他們知道自己的子女是homosexuality的時候..應該沒有多少家庭是可以接受的...
    所以..選擇什麽樣的life-being..only depends what and how you value your surroundings.....
    surroundings here, to me, do not mean the society or what called morality...
    It's self-respect and the respect of your family
     
    Sept. 28

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